Comments on: How To Be A Man And A Woman Both At The Same Time http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/ physical immortality is a healthy choice - physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually Mon, 01 Feb 2010 13:50:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Ari Koinuma http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/#comment-557 Ari Koinuma Thu, 11 Sep 2008 01:32:26 +0000 http://letsliveforever.net/?p=34#comment-557 Hey Robin, I agree with everything you wrote, though I am not quite following you on how developing your intuitiveness leads to being both a man and a woman at the same time. ;-) I do agree with the basic premise that you can possess develop qualities that are traditionally considered as either masculine or feminine. Earlier in my life, I was a pretty extreme INFP -- introvert, intuitive, feeling and perceiving. Funny enough, all of them are on the "feminine" side. But over the years I did change, and now I'm an INFJ -- but with everything except "I" close to in the middle. It wasn't an entirely conscious choice to develop qualities I was lacking, but I think being a husband and father and taking on the traditional masculine role in those dominant relationships had an effect on me. Personality type is a fascinating subject to me, I'd like to explore more on my blog in the future, too. ari Ari Koinumas last blog post..<a href="http://ourbestversion.com/2008/09/the-basis-of-all-desires-and-the-truth-about-growth-digest/" rel="nofollow">The Basis of All Desires and The Truth about Growth (Digest)</a> Hey Robin,

I agree with everything you wrote, though I am not quite following you on how developing your intuitiveness leads to being both a man and a woman at the same time. ;-)

I do agree with the basic premise that you can possess develop qualities that are traditionally considered as either masculine or feminine. Earlier in my life, I was a pretty extreme INFP — introvert, intuitive, feeling and perceiving. Funny enough, all of them are on the “feminine” side. But over the years I did change, and now I’m an INFJ — but with everything except “I” close to in the middle. It wasn’t an entirely conscious choice to develop qualities I was lacking, but I think being a husband and father and taking on the traditional masculine role in those dominant relationships had an effect on me.

Personality type is a fascinating subject to me, I’d like to explore more on my blog in the future, too.

ari

Ari Koinumas last blog post..The Basis of All Desires and The Truth about Growth (Digest)

]]> By: Robin http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/#comment-65 Robin Fri, 23 May 2008 12:04:38 +0000 http://letsliveforever.net/?p=34#comment-65 Thanks Sumesh - really appreciate it Thanks Sumesh – really appreciate it

]]> By: Sumesh from Blog Creativity http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/#comment-64 Sumesh from Blog Creativity Fri, 23 May 2008 11:52:34 +0000 http://letsliveforever.net/?p=34#comment-64 And oh, in the code I gave above, copy the code I gave, and you have to change one thing because WordPress has messed with the code a bit. The double quotes given above are not right, so replace the double quotes by typing them yourselves. And oh, in the code I gave above, copy the code I gave, and you have to change one thing because WordPress has messed with the code a bit. The double quotes given above are not right, so replace the double quotes by typing them yourselves.

]]> By: Sumesh from Blog Creativity http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/#comment-63 Sumesh from Blog Creativity Fri, 23 May 2008 11:48:25 +0000 http://letsliveforever.net/?p=34#comment-63 I really liked the intuition bit - something I need to work on ;) Btw, putting links in comments is easy - simply put the link URl, and it will turn to a link in comments. You can also use the code below (which is the HTML code for a link): <a href="PUT YOUR URL HERE">LINK TEXT</a> In the code above, put the URL where it is mentioned. Link text means what word you want the link to be with, for example, here's a link to <a href="http://techzilo.com/" rel="nofollow">TechZilo</a> (my blog) would be done with the code <a href="http://techzilo.com/">TechZilo</a> Hope that helps. I know how hard it can be to master WordPress, so ask me any doubt if you want - just shoot me an email. I really liked the intuition bit – something I need to work on ;)

Btw, putting links in comments is easy – simply put the link URl, and it will turn to a link in comments. You can also use the code below (which is the HTML code for a link):
<a href=”PUT YOUR URL HERE”>LINK TEXT</a>

In the code above, put the URL where it is mentioned. Link text means what word you want the link to be with, for example, here’s a link to TechZilo (my blog) would be done with the code
<a href=”http://techzilo.com/”>TechZilo</a>

Hope that helps. I know how hard it can be to master WordPress, so ask me any doubt if you want – just shoot me an email.

]]> By: Robin http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/#comment-61 Robin Fri, 23 May 2008 00:16:18 +0000 http://letsliveforever.net/?p=34#comment-61 @Mark - thanks Mark for sharing your insights @norea - yes I think that's spot-on - thanks for your contribution! @Herrera - well give me a compliment and I'll follow you anywhere! And thanks for adding your insights - the "hands with horror" sentiment is rather prevalent, I'm afraid (I think). @Mark – thanks Mark for sharing your insights
@norea – yes I think that’s spot-on – thanks for your contribution!
@Herrera – well give me a compliment and I’ll follow you anywhere! And thanks for adding your insights – the “hands with horror” sentiment is rather prevalent, I’m afraid (I think).

]]> By: Herrera http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/#comment-58 Herrera Thu, 22 May 2008 14:32:18 +0000 http://letsliveforever.net/?p=34#comment-58 This is gold: "One way of learning to identify intuition is to think of things in your life that worked out well, and recollect how you felt when you made the decision to go in that direction. You were following your intuition then." Regarding this: "Some people throw up their hands in horror at the idea of everyone doing exactly what they want." Poor self-confidence is the root of this behavior. Fragile souls tend to project their fears and anxieties onto others in an effort to defend and to maintain their emotional cutoff. And sure, leaving comments on other people’s blogs is a nice way to grow your blog :) This is gold:
“One way of learning to identify intuition is to think of things in your life that worked out well, and recollect how you felt when you made the decision to go in that direction. You were following your intuition then.”

Regarding this:
“Some people throw up their hands in horror at the idea of everyone doing exactly what they want.”
Poor self-confidence is the root of this behavior. Fragile souls tend to project their fears and anxieties onto others in an effort to defend and to maintain their emotional cutoff.

And sure, leaving comments on other people’s blogs is a nice way to grow your blog :)

]]> By: norea http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/#comment-57 norea Wed, 21 May 2008 12:44:10 +0000 http://letsliveforever.net/?p=34#comment-57 Life is about balancing male and female, doing and being. It is in incorporating both energies that Life is born. Life is about balancing male and female, doing and being. It is in incorporating both energies that Life is born.

]]> By: Mark http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/#comment-56 Mark Tue, 20 May 2008 21:39:15 +0000 http://letsliveforever.net/?p=34#comment-56 Acknowleging, listening to and acting on our intuition is key to our personal happiness and success. Acknowleging, listening to and acting on our intuition is key to our personal happiness and success.

]]> By: Robin http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/#comment-55 Robin Tue, 20 May 2008 03:33:35 +0000 http://letsliveforever.net/?p=34#comment-55 @Shilpan - thanks for your thoughtful comment - that is very true @Natural - yes, if by following your heart you mean emotional reactions, that's not intuition. It can be really tricky identifying intuition. - thanks for your comment! @Vered - and thanks to you Vered for your interesting comment! @rainer - ha ha - it conjures up an interesting image, doesn't it?! Thanks. @Chris - yes, I think identifying the signals is the trickiest bit - but practice makes perfect! Thanks for your comment. And I want to thank Hunter Nutall for writing another post on the topic, and expanding it further, and mentioning this post here. I don't know how to put a link in the comments field - but it's on his blog now. And I'm new to WordPress so I didn't have the trackbacks working - sigh - I've got them working now. :=) @Shilpan – thanks for your thoughtful comment – that is very true
@Natural – yes, if by following your heart you mean emotional reactions, that’s not intuition. It can be really tricky identifying intuition. – thanks for your comment!
@Vered – and thanks to you Vered for your interesting comment!
@rainer – ha ha – it conjures up an interesting image, doesn’t it?! Thanks.
@Chris – yes, I think identifying the signals is the trickiest bit – but practice makes perfect! Thanks for your comment.

And I want to thank Hunter Nutall for writing another post on the topic, and expanding it further, and mentioning this post here. I don’t know how to put a link in the comments field – but it’s on his blog now. And I’m new to WordPress so I didn’t have the trackbacks working – sigh – I’ve got them working now. :=)

]]> By: Chris http://letsliveforever.net/2008/05/how-to-be-a-man-and-a-woman-both-at-the-same-time/#comment-54 Chris Tue, 20 May 2008 01:29:09 +0000 http://letsliveforever.net/?p=34#comment-54 Do it and Know it's ok. I actually live by these words and I have noticed that when I do live on these two phrases things actually work out. What I don't understand sometimes is that I sometimes fail to recognize the signals. Do it and Know it’s ok. I actually live by these words and I have noticed that when I do live on these two phrases things actually work out. What I don’t understand sometimes is that I sometimes fail to recognize the signals.

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